Did you ever meet a person who thinks they're the cats meow? They look and behave confident and exude sensuality. From a distance it looks like they have there shit together but up close you clearly see they’re nothing more than a train wreck. They are the same people who have high standards when it comes to whom they romance. Their mates must be physically fit – God or Goddess type, so onlookers can goggle. They also believe they should be treated like Gods. And the unfortunate aspect is they’re well into their 40’s and probably 50’s.
Do you know the type? They’re the ones that never grew up. Nope, they still think and behave as if they are 20. Most are single or soon to be single again. They play head games and have high expectation of others. Its never them its always someone else that is the problem. Taking responsibility isn’t something they learned yet and a lack of communication skills, plagues their relationships.
And if their behavior and the lack of ownership and responsibility for self isn’t enough, the way they dress screams “Grow Up!”. I for one am not against dressing sexy and showing off skim but I believe it ought to be done with taste and sophistication. Clothing needs to be age appropriate. For those people it is away to attract like-minded mates, or how else will they find each other. Like attracts like. They spot each other from a mile away – They’re like magnets to each other. Its lust at first sight! A match made in paradise.
They are the ones that never look back at life to see what the problem really is. They only look back to relive each breakup, each self-sabotage experience, and everything anyone has ever done wrong to them. They build a defense around what they believe they need to do to become stronger and tougher so they can minimize future heartaches. They go on to live a jaded and scared life. Unfortunately, some never realize they are the problem and continue to repeat the cycle over and over, attracting the same type of mate and continue to experience the same kind of issue with most of their relationships.
But I am happy to say that some do wake one morning and realize that they have been the problem the entire time. They look in the mirror and accept they aren’t 20 anymore. They take ownership and responsibility for all that hasn’t happened, yet. They realize that showing off a little too much skin isn’t the way to attract a real soul mate. And they learn the art of communication – the ability to express thoughts and emotions and not assume that those around them could read minds.
Do you know someone who believes he or she is The Cat’s Meow?
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Examine your self limiting beliefs that are preventing you from attracting what you want.
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