If you can understand how and why you behave the way you do, you can modify your behavior so to create a new and different outcome. Different than from what you’re used to.
To create a new outcome isn’t always the easiest thing to achieve. There’s enjoyment in repeating the same outcome. To some level you feel good plus it’s comfortable to have the same outcome play over. Anything different would not be normal and would possibly scare you. So it's easier to just stick with the status que, guilty pleasure.
Life, as you already know is confusing enough for the average person. Everyone has some sort of issue. Anger, passive aggression, bouts of depression, mistrust, guilt, anxiety, fear - you name it and someone you know or you yourself is dealing with it right now. You might be aware of your issue but unable to control it. You could be aware of it but not care to change it, or you could be hiding behind a mask and projecting your issues onto others.
Image you growing up in a dysfunctional home. Everyone in your household yelled and screamed, called each other names, and fought with one another. Now add bullies into your environment, a few fights, some teasing and name-calling. Support and encourage are just two words in the dictionary, and if someone hurts you, you have the right to defend yourself and cry bloody murder. You grow into a teenager searching for a place to call home. Sex, drugs and alcohol make you feel right at home. I bet if I do a little of this and little of that they might like me enough that they will come back, and should someone stick around longer than any before, hit the road Jack and don't you come back no more… Did I hear you say you’re gay?
So, what does this all mean for you the adult? It could mean that you are highly pissed off and angry at the world. Insecure comes to mind and that you have a need for some level of validation.
“Violence is never the answer”
How many altercations have you been involved in where violence did not solve your issue, and what was it about?
“I know I say things that really upset people, that is not a reason to hit anyone. I never had someone attach me like this”
Sometimes when you project your issues onto others someone will enable your behavior and attack you. Why are you surprised that this even happened to you, isn’t it common?
“Coward, Disgusting human being for lying – I would never lie”
I find that hard to believe.
“I don’t need press publicity – I didn’t ask for this, I didn’t deserve this”
Then why did you create a video and make it public over the internet?
“I like to write about other people’s drama, I don’t like drama in my own life.”
Isn’t this the second time in recent months you created drama in your life?
“Fuck you, you fucking lied, you fucking mother fucker- You know very well, I know very well, God knows it wasn’t a random fan. You’re a fucking liar”
And this is what you call professional?
“I took to twitter for help” and for validation. “My very public cry for help – all those people who expressed concern and called the police, thank you from the bottom of my heart. I am a human being and nobody deserves to be treated that way. Violence is never the answer, Fuck you Will I am for lying. Furgie you’re an ugly bitch.
I bet if I do a little of this and little of that they might like me enough that they will come back for more.
Bruno LoGreco Life Coach & Mentor
2 comments:
spot on Bruno..;p
i couldn't help but laugh at that drama queen... (i believe he calls himself 'The Gossip Queen')
I feel like making my own rant about this faux-celeb.. but that would be giving him the attention he seeks — what an attention wh*re!
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